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The First Ladies
A novel about the extraordinary partnership between First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt and civil rights activist Mary McLeod Bethune—an unlikely friendship that changed the world, from the New York Times bestselling authors of the Good Morning America Book Club pick The Personal Librarian .
The daughter of formerly enslaved parents, Mary McLeod Bethune refuses to back down as white supremacists attempt to thwart her work. She marches on as an activist and an educator, and as her reputation grows she becomes a celebrity, revered by titans of business and recognized by U.S. Presidents. Eleanor Roosevelt herself is awestruck and eager to make her acquaintance. Initially drawn together because of their shared belief in women’s rights and the power of education, Mary and Eleanor become fast friends confiding their secrets, hopes and dreams—and holding each other’s hands through tragedy and triumph.
When Franklin Delano Roosevelt is elected president, the two women begin to collaborate more closely, particularly as Eleanor moves toward her own agenda separate from FDR, a consequence of the devastating discovery of her husband’s secret love affair. Eleanor becomes a controversial First Lady for her outspokenness, particularly on civil rights. And when she receives threats because of her strong ties to Mary, it only fuels the women’s desire to fight together for justice and equality.
This is the story of two different, yet equally formidable, passionate, and committed women, and the way in which their singular friendship helped form the foundation for the modern civil rights movement.
The daughter of formerly enslaved parents, Mary McLeod Bethune refuses to back down as white supremacists attempt to thwart her work. She marches on as an activist and an educator, and as her reputation grows she becomes a celebrity, revered by titans of business and recognized by U.S. Presidents. Eleanor Roosevelt herself is awestruck and eager to make her acquaintance. Initially drawn together because of their shared belief in women’s rights and the power of education, Mary and Eleanor become fast friends confiding their secrets, hopes and dreams—and holding each other’s hands through tragedy and triumph.
When Franklin Delano Roosevelt is elected president, the two women begin to collaborate more closely, particularly as Eleanor moves toward her own agenda separate from FDR, a consequence of the devastating discovery of her husband’s secret love affair. Eleanor becomes a controversial First Lady for her outspokenness, particularly on civil rights. And when she receives threats because of her strong ties to Mary, it only fuels the women’s desire to fight together for justice and equality.
This is the story of two different, yet equally formidable, passionate, and committed women, and the way in which their singular friendship helped form the foundation for the modern civil rights movement.
389 pages, Hardcover
First published June 27, 2023
About the author
Marie Benedict
27 books10.4k followersMarie Benedict is a lawyer with more than ten years' experience as a litigator at two of the country's premier law firms. She found her calling unearthing the hidden historical stories of women. Her mission is to excavate from the past the most important, complex and fascinating women of history and bring them into the light of present-day where we can finally perceive the breadth of their contributions as well as the insights they bring to modern day issues.
She embarked on this mission with THE OTHER EINSTEIN, which tells the tale of Albert Einstein's first wife, a physicist herself, and followed that with the USA Today bestselling CARNEGIE'S MAID. Up next was the New York Times bestseller and Barnes & Noble Book Club Pick THE ONLY WOMAN IN THE ROOM, the story of the brilliant inventor Hedy Lamarr. Then came LADY CLEMENTINE, the internationally bestselling story of Clementine Churchill. Her next novel, the instant New York Times bestselling THE MYSTERY OF MRS. CHRISTIE, focused on the real life disappearance of Agatha Christie. The bestselling books HER HIDDEN GENIUS, which reveals Rosalind Franklin's discovery of the structure of DNA, and THE MITFORD AFFAIR, which explores the role that history's most notorious sisters played in the rise of World War II, were published in quick succession.
Her first co-written novel with the talented Victoria Christopher Murray, THE PERSONAL LIBRARIAN, shares the legacy of the brilliant Belle da Costa Greene, J.P. Morgan's librarian, and became an instant New York Times bestseller and Good Morning America Book Club Pick. Most recently, she published another co-written novel with Victoria Christopher Murray, the instant New York Times bestseller and Target Book of the Year THE FIRST LADIES, which explores the world changing friendship of Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune.
In February of 2025, Marie will publish her newest novel, THE QUEENS OF CRIME, which is a thrilling story of Agatha Christie’s legendary rival, mystery writer Dorothy Sayers, the race to solve a real-life murder, and the power of friendship among women.
Writing as Heather Terrell, Marie also published the historical novels The Chrysalis, The Map Thief, and Brigid of Kildare. Marie's novels have been translated into twenty-nine languages.
She embarked on this mission with THE OTHER EINSTEIN, which tells the tale of Albert Einstein's first wife, a physicist herself, and followed that with the USA Today bestselling CARNEGIE'S MAID. Up next was the New York Times bestseller and Barnes & Noble Book Club Pick THE ONLY WOMAN IN THE ROOM, the story of the brilliant inventor Hedy Lamarr. Then came LADY CLEMENTINE, the internationally bestselling story of Clementine Churchill. Her next novel, the instant New York Times bestselling THE MYSTERY OF MRS. CHRISTIE, focused on the real life disappearance of Agatha Christie. The bestselling books HER HIDDEN GENIUS, which reveals Rosalind Franklin's discovery of the structure of DNA, and THE MITFORD AFFAIR, which explores the role that history's most notorious sisters played in the rise of World War II, were published in quick succession.
Her first co-written novel with the talented Victoria Christopher Murray, THE PERSONAL LIBRARIAN, shares the legacy of the brilliant Belle da Costa Greene, J.P. Morgan's librarian, and became an instant New York Times bestseller and Good Morning America Book Club Pick. Most recently, she published another co-written novel with Victoria Christopher Murray, the instant New York Times bestseller and Target Book of the Year THE FIRST LADIES, which explores the world changing friendship of Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune.
In February of 2025, Marie will publish her newest novel, THE QUEENS OF CRIME, which is a thrilling story of Agatha Christie’s legendary rival, mystery writer Dorothy Sayers, the race to solve a real-life murder, and the power of friendship among women.
Writing as Heather Terrell, Marie also published the historical novels The Chrysalis, The Map Thief, and Brigid of Kildare. Marie's novels have been translated into twenty-nine languages.
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May 21, 2023
The First Ladies represents the second collaboration between Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray. And once again, it’s a resounding success. The First Ladies takes on the friendship of Eleanor Roosevelt and Mrs. Mary McLeod Bethune. It’s a subject that works much better for having these two adept authors handling it together.
While I’ve read much about Mrs. Roosevelt, Mary Bethune was unknown to me. An educator (she founded a private school that became the Bethune-Cookman College) and a civil rights activist (founding the National Association of Colored Women and sitting on the board of the NAACP), she became an advisor to President Roosevelt.
The authors have an equally strong partnership and their writing styles merged perfectly. It’s a fine art to imbue a story with facts without disrupting the pace of the story. The authors have done it perfectly.
I have strong opinions about what historical fiction should be and this met all my requirements. I learned a lot about all the individuals involved. And finished with a new found appreciation for Sara Roosevelt.
As the book progresses, it focuses on the work both women did for equal rights, starting with trying to get an anti-lynching bill passed by Congress. It was a reminder that the Democrats weren’t always the party seeking equality. And that even FDR wasn’t willing to support the bill, realizing the political hot potato it was when he was trying to juggle passing the New Deal bills and acting for the greater good.
I adored both Author’s Notes which outlined how their partnership led to a friendship which led to the necessary deep conversations about race between two women of different colors.
It’s sad to think the US didn’t pass an anti-lynching act until 2022. Sadder still to think that so much of what Mary and Eleanor fought against still goes on.
Because my advance copy didn’t include the historical notes, I’m left confused about Steve Woodburn, who appears in this story as a political advisor who took Louis Howe’s place after Howe’s death. I was unable to find any information about the man.
My thanks to Netgalley and Berkley for an advance copy of this book.
While I’ve read much about Mrs. Roosevelt, Mary Bethune was unknown to me. An educator (she founded a private school that became the Bethune-Cookman College) and a civil rights activist (founding the National Association of Colored Women and sitting on the board of the NAACP), she became an advisor to President Roosevelt.
The authors have an equally strong partnership and their writing styles merged perfectly. It’s a fine art to imbue a story with facts without disrupting the pace of the story. The authors have done it perfectly.
I have strong opinions about what historical fiction should be and this met all my requirements. I learned a lot about all the individuals involved. And finished with a new found appreciation for Sara Roosevelt.
As the book progresses, it focuses on the work both women did for equal rights, starting with trying to get an anti-lynching bill passed by Congress. It was a reminder that the Democrats weren’t always the party seeking equality. And that even FDR wasn’t willing to support the bill, realizing the political hot potato it was when he was trying to juggle passing the New Deal bills and acting for the greater good.
I adored both Author’s Notes which outlined how their partnership led to a friendship which led to the necessary deep conversations about race between two women of different colors.
It’s sad to think the US didn’t pass an anti-lynching act until 2022. Sadder still to think that so much of what Mary and Eleanor fought against still goes on.
Because my advance copy didn’t include the historical notes, I’m left confused about Steve Woodburn, who appears in this story as a political advisor who took Louis Howe’s place after Howe’s death. I was unable to find any information about the man.
My thanks to Netgalley and Berkley for an advance copy of this book.
June 29, 2023
4.5⭐️ So often historical fiction set in the 1930s-1940s are focused on WWII either from the European or American standpoint. I loved that this story is about a war being fought here on US soil - the war for Black Americans to gain basic civil rights and to bring an end to lynching through the passage of crucial anti-lynching laws. Told in dual POV, from the perspectives of First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt and First Lady (of the civil rights movement) Mary McLeod Bethune, we are taken through the formation of this powerhouse of a friendship/partnership, through decades of their work together.
This is an impeccably researched book, with the co-authors painstakingly recreating, through records and accounts, the lives of these two very different, but equally important women and their close friendship. Through Eleanor, Mary gains and understanding of the political arena and connections that help her make a wider impact. Through Mary, Eleanor gains a fundamental understanding of how basic rights she takes for granted, are not accessible to Black Americans such as Mary. And through each other, they gain a friendship that takes them through their most tumultuous years, always with a shoulder to cry on.
I will note that this is a dense read due to the wealth of information needed to properly tell this story. As a result, this is not a bingeable historical fiction novel in the way an action packed WWII novel might be. Go slow, break it into sections, and enjoy the rich detail Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray provide you with. I think when approached this way, it makes for a much more engaging experience.
𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞:
•US history
•stories of friendship
•early civil rights movement
•political history
•well researched HF
Thank you {partners} Berkley Publishing and PRH Audio for my gifted copies.
This is an impeccably researched book, with the co-authors painstakingly recreating, through records and accounts, the lives of these two very different, but equally important women and their close friendship. Through Eleanor, Mary gains and understanding of the political arena and connections that help her make a wider impact. Through Mary, Eleanor gains a fundamental understanding of how basic rights she takes for granted, are not accessible to Black Americans such as Mary. And through each other, they gain a friendship that takes them through their most tumultuous years, always with a shoulder to cry on.
I will note that this is a dense read due to the wealth of information needed to properly tell this story. As a result, this is not a bingeable historical fiction novel in the way an action packed WWII novel might be. Go slow, break it into sections, and enjoy the rich detail Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray provide you with. I think when approached this way, it makes for a much more engaging experience.
𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞:
•US history
•stories of friendship
•early civil rights movement
•political history
•well researched HF
Thank you {partners} Berkley Publishing and PRH Audio for my gifted copies.
July 3, 2023
Eleanor's story 2 ⭐
Mary's story 4 ⭐
After finishing this book yesterday evening, I wrestled with what to write in my review. I was so excited to get a " Quick Skip The Line!" audiobook and ebook on my Libby app. Well, I read and listened to it and all I can honestly say is that I was completely disappointed with it. I really thought it would be more about the friendship between the two women, but it was more political than anything else. I want to put a warning ⚠️ for sensitive readers, like myself. It goes into graphic details about lynchings and if you read this book, you should be aware of that fact.
It's not an easy read and it deals with very hard topics. I found it repetitive and boring with the same topic brought up in every chapter. I really felt like not finishing it quite a few times, but I finished it for a couple of reasons:
1. Mary's story was fascinating and I wanted to know how it ended.
2. I don't like not finishing a book unless it's offensive in someway.
I know that reviews can sway a readers decision to read a book or not, I don't want to do that just because I was frustrated and couldn't wait for it to end. Please read this book and decide for yourself if you like it or not. Honestly, I hope that you'll enjoy it so much more than I did!
Enjoy and Happy Reading 💫✨
Mary's story 4 ⭐
After finishing this book yesterday evening, I wrestled with what to write in my review. I was so excited to get a " Quick Skip The Line!" audiobook and ebook on my Libby app. Well, I read and listened to it and all I can honestly say is that I was completely disappointed with it. I really thought it would be more about the friendship between the two women, but it was more political than anything else. I want to put a warning ⚠️ for sensitive readers, like myself. It goes into graphic details about lynchings and if you read this book, you should be aware of that fact.
It's not an easy read and it deals with very hard topics. I found it repetitive and boring with the same topic brought up in every chapter. I really felt like not finishing it quite a few times, but I finished it for a couple of reasons:
1. Mary's story was fascinating and I wanted to know how it ended.
2. I don't like not finishing a book unless it's offensive in someway.
I know that reviews can sway a readers decision to read a book or not, I don't want to do that just because I was frustrated and couldn't wait for it to end. Please read this book and decide for yourself if you like it or not. Honestly, I hope that you'll enjoy it so much more than I did!
Enjoy and Happy Reading 💫✨
September 4, 2023
The First Ladies imagines the stories of Mary McLead Bethune, black highly educated woman, and Eleanor Roosevelt, wife of politician.
The two women meet in 1927 at national luncheon of women’s club heads in New York. Mary is the only black woman in the room and with her presence unnerves other women. Mary received the invitation because she was the renowned educator. The invitation was extended by Eleanor Roosevelt and her mother-in-law. Mary and Eleanor become fast friends and get involved in civil rights.
The first chapters start very strong with backstories, which beautifully introduce the characters, letting the reader connect with them right away. The first conversations are so real and flow very naturally, which depicts well the start of a good friendship and good understanding between two women.
Then, very quickly it becomes a different style of writing with overdone conversations and descriptions. The meaningfulness to stir emotions is missing. It’s a slow progression of some overdone details that lead to something more meaningful toward the end.
This is a fascinating story which alternates between two women with short chapters (which is not for everyone), but I wasn’t engrossed by the details. I liked all books written solely by Marie Benedict, but her collaborations carry a different style of writing, which I’m not connecting with.
The two women meet in 1927 at national luncheon of women’s club heads in New York. Mary is the only black woman in the room and with her presence unnerves other women. Mary received the invitation because she was the renowned educator. The invitation was extended by Eleanor Roosevelt and her mother-in-law. Mary and Eleanor become fast friends and get involved in civil rights.
The first chapters start very strong with backstories, which beautifully introduce the characters, letting the reader connect with them right away. The first conversations are so real and flow very naturally, which depicts well the start of a good friendship and good understanding between two women.
Then, very quickly it becomes a different style of writing with overdone conversations and descriptions. The meaningfulness to stir emotions is missing. It’s a slow progression of some overdone details that lead to something more meaningful toward the end.
This is a fascinating story which alternates between two women with short chapters (which is not for everyone), but I wasn’t engrossed by the details. I liked all books written solely by Marie Benedict, but her collaborations carry a different style of writing, which I’m not connecting with.
July 26, 2023
This is a well-written, entertaining historical fiction novel which is based on actual persons and events. It is thoroughly researched and informative. I was not familiar with the brilliant Mary McLeod Bethune prior to reading this wonderful novel and I am grateful to the authors for telling her fascinating story, and describing her relationship with amazing Eleanor Roosevelt. The authors' notes are informative and enlightening and are truly appreciated. I listened to the audio version of this novel, and the narrators, Ms.Robin Miles and Ms. Tavia Gilbert are truly talented.
July 6, 2023
2 stars=it was ok. Repetitive and dry. Often read like a documentary. Lots of "telling" but the settings and depth were lacking. I thought the premise sounded great but I struggled to finish. I did, however, enjoy learning Mary's story.
April 11, 2024
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THE FIRST LADIES by Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray is a biographical historical fiction novel of a beautiful and significant friendship between a First Lady of the United States, Eleanor Roosevelt and the First Lady of the Struggle, Mary McLeod Bethune. The story spans two decades with the Depression, World War II, Jim Crow laws, lynching, and the continual fight for social equality with these two strong women fighting together for change.
While I felt knowledgeable about this period and Eleanor Roosevelt’s work for social improvements for all, I did not know about Mary McLeod Bethune’s contributions. The story of their friendship is told in alternating chapters. Mary is older, a Lincoln Republican and has been fighting for education for Negroes and equality her entire life when she meets Eleanor (who is not a First Lady at the time). They strike up an unlikely friendship that endures triumphs and tragedies, both personal and political.
I loved the new historical facts and people I learned of while reading this story. For me, research and facts in a historical story are important and I always hope to learn something new. The candid conversations between the two highlighted common misunderstandings between the races, racial discrimination, and segregation. As the two grew closer, I enjoyed the scenes where they would work around the system, problem, or President to get the solution they wanted. While this is an engaging story of historical friendship, it also delves into the politics of the times to a great degree. I love politics, both past and present, but for some who are hoping for a book only about the two women’s friendship, they may not enjoy it as much as I did.
This is a book of a loving friendship, but it also delves into the darkness of racial hate, lynching, and segregation. The disrespect of humans for just the color of their skin was ever present in this period of American history (not that it isn’t today), but Eleanor was the First Lady and with her power and the help of her friend Mary, she continuously and publicly fought to change society.
I highly recommend this powerful biographical historical fiction about two amazing First Ladies!
THE FIRST LADIES by Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray is a biographical historical fiction novel of a beautiful and significant friendship between a First Lady of the United States, Eleanor Roosevelt and the First Lady of the Struggle, Mary McLeod Bethune. The story spans two decades with the Depression, World War II, Jim Crow laws, lynching, and the continual fight for social equality with these two strong women fighting together for change.
While I felt knowledgeable about this period and Eleanor Roosevelt’s work for social improvements for all, I did not know about Mary McLeod Bethune’s contributions. The story of their friendship is told in alternating chapters. Mary is older, a Lincoln Republican and has been fighting for education for Negroes and equality her entire life when she meets Eleanor (who is not a First Lady at the time). They strike up an unlikely friendship that endures triumphs and tragedies, both personal and political.
I loved the new historical facts and people I learned of while reading this story. For me, research and facts in a historical story are important and I always hope to learn something new. The candid conversations between the two highlighted common misunderstandings between the races, racial discrimination, and segregation. As the two grew closer, I enjoyed the scenes where they would work around the system, problem, or President to get the solution they wanted. While this is an engaging story of historical friendship, it also delves into the politics of the times to a great degree. I love politics, both past and present, but for some who are hoping for a book only about the two women’s friendship, they may not enjoy it as much as I did.
This is a book of a loving friendship, but it also delves into the darkness of racial hate, lynching, and segregation. The disrespect of humans for just the color of their skin was ever present in this period of American history (not that it isn’t today), but Eleanor was the First Lady and with her power and the help of her friend Mary, she continuously and publicly fought to change society.
I highly recommend this powerful biographical historical fiction about two amazing First Ladies!
August 23, 2023
The First Ladies by Marie Benedict. I am pretty sure this is my favorite book by the author. I learned so much about Mrs Roosevelt. Some of which were a bit shocking! If you know you know 😉 I love her passion bringing equality to blacks and whites. She faced many racial challenges. Her best friend, Mary McLeod Bethune, by her side they opened many doors previously closed to black men and women. I have always wondered how the two political parties reversed. In this informative and educational novel I learned that as well.
May 9, 2024
Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune, two fierce and intelligent women who achieved greatness in the early and mid 20th century. One married to the POTUS and the other paving the way for African-American rights before the Civil Rights Movement. A fantastic story interspersing the lives of these two women as both independent leaders and thinkers and wives or mothers who had to raise their families all at the same time. Benedict gives us something solid to root for, something painful to lament... how can some people be so cruel, I constantly asked myself when it came to hearing about lynching, skin color, and segregation. I enjoyed this retelling of the friendship, filled with several exaggerations I'm sure, but nonetheless, it was entertaining, earthshattering, and endearing. I am always filled with inspiration and ideas when I finish one of Benedict's novels.
July 23, 2023
This is the latest book by Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray. 💕 and it is a Winner❣️ Their other collaboration was The Personal Librarian which I thought was a fantastic book.
It is about First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt and Civil Rights Activist, Mary McLeod Bethune. Mary refuses to stop her activism when White Supremacist Groups try to Stop her. Eleanor Roosevelt is fascinated with her work and the two become friends.
I learned so much history that I was unaware of. It also does a great job giving Eleanor’s perspective and Mary’s perspective. Both become serious advocates working for civil rights and stopping the most heinous crime of lynching. The book starts in the late 1929’s and continues through the 40’s. At a time when Legal Segregation it difficult for anyone of a different race to get together these women managed to do so.
I really enjoyed reading this, but recommend it if you enjoy history, politics, and working toward making progress. It is about the 2 women’s friendship and how a deep trust develops over time, but also discusses the contribution both women made together and alone to push for much needed reform.
It is about First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt and Civil Rights Activist, Mary McLeod Bethune. Mary refuses to stop her activism when White Supremacist Groups try to Stop her. Eleanor Roosevelt is fascinated with her work and the two become friends.
I learned so much history that I was unaware of. It also does a great job giving Eleanor’s perspective and Mary’s perspective. Both become serious advocates working for civil rights and stopping the most heinous crime of lynching. The book starts in the late 1929’s and continues through the 40’s. At a time when Legal Segregation it difficult for anyone of a different race to get together these women managed to do so.
I really enjoyed reading this, but recommend it if you enjoy history, politics, and working toward making progress. It is about the 2 women’s friendship and how a deep trust develops over time, but also discusses the contribution both women made together and alone to push for much needed reform.
July 23, 2023
I...did not enjoy this. I hate not finishing a book, but I had to stop. It's literally the opposite of what everyone says about this book but it was painful and boring (to me!) to try and get through. A lot LOT of people thoroughly enjoy the writing of Murray and Benedict as co-authors and their writing style was the main reason I couldn't keep going. However, I want to be clear, every author/writer is not for everyone. I think the topic and narrative of this book are extremely interesting and learning more about a civil rights icon is always amazing. If you have enjoyed previous works by these authors, you may enjoy this. If you're interested in this time period or learning more about American history, try this book (honestly, that's why I did). TL;DR: This book by these authors was not for me.
For me, there were three major issues.
1. The consistent POV shifts prevented immersion.
2. Though I was more interested in Mary McLeod Bethune's story, I hated the voice and style the author was writing with.
3. To no fault (or mostly no fault?) of the author who wrote the Eleanor perspective, her persona annoyed me I ended up getting annoyed reading about her.
One:
I appreciated the fact that this book was written in a way so readers would see the lives of both of these women. Honestly, that parallel is what drew me. Learning more about a civil rights icon and learning about a first lady I knew nothing about was SO appealing. However, these chapters are very short. That's not really a problem in and of itself. The problem is the POV shifted back and forth after each short chapter, which means as soon as, or right before, you get interested and are learning about the life of one of the ladies, it stops and switches to the other. This was SO frustrating. I think the POV change is important for this type of narrative, but it did so much injustice the way it was implemented. It felt like someone would take the book you were reading and give you something else right when you were getting interested.
Two:
The story of Mary McLeod Bethune's life is so important to history. She was an amazing woman and did so much for the betterment of Black people. I wanted to know more about her and read more of her story. The author that was in charge of her POV did such a disservice; all of her chapters read as though they were more research repurposed rather than put into a narrative that readers can read for enjoyment as well as education. It's hard to explain I guess, but, for me, it was painful and not at all entertaining to read. But it's historical, it shouldn't be just fluff and easy reading. You are correct. However, there are two things to consider. One: the other POV wasn't written as strenuous and had much more of a "creative writing flair" than just repurposed research. Two: this book is not a biography or a book of hard research facts. The tone missed the mark in my opinion. Yes, these were two different women so their style of discourse would be different. But, there is no reason one POV felt completely readable and the other didn't other than the author.
Three:
Eleanor's personality annoyed me, at least the personality that the author seemed to give her at times. I did a little research on her to read about her before I wrote this and she did amazing things and deserved more than her chronic cheating husband. Though it was not very in-depth research, I think some of this was how the author wrote her and some was the fact that she was young-ish at the beginning of the book (not really but in terms of the book's time-span coverage, it starts before FDR becomes governor of NY) and that may have been who she was. I am not entirely sure one way or the other.
Overall, I may try to finish/reread this book again at a different time because the subject matter is interesting. However, for the reasons above, I just couldn't do it.
For me, there were three major issues.
1. The consistent POV shifts prevented immersion.
2. Though I was more interested in Mary McLeod Bethune's story, I hated the voice and style the author was writing with.
3. To no fault (or mostly no fault?) of the author who wrote the Eleanor perspective, her persona annoyed me I ended up getting annoyed reading about her.
One:
I appreciated the fact that this book was written in a way so readers would see the lives of both of these women. Honestly, that parallel is what drew me. Learning more about a civil rights icon and learning about a first lady I knew nothing about was SO appealing. However, these chapters are very short. That's not really a problem in and of itself. The problem is the POV shifted back and forth after each short chapter, which means as soon as, or right before, you get interested and are learning about the life of one of the ladies, it stops and switches to the other. This was SO frustrating. I think the POV change is important for this type of narrative, but it did so much injustice the way it was implemented. It felt like someone would take the book you were reading and give you something else right when you were getting interested.
Two:
The story of Mary McLeod Bethune's life is so important to history. She was an amazing woman and did so much for the betterment of Black people. I wanted to know more about her and read more of her story. The author that was in charge of her POV did such a disservice; all of her chapters read as though they were more research repurposed rather than put into a narrative that readers can read for enjoyment as well as education. It's hard to explain I guess, but, for me, it was painful and not at all entertaining to read. But it's historical, it shouldn't be just fluff and easy reading. You are correct. However, there are two things to consider. One: the other POV wasn't written as strenuous and had much more of a "creative writing flair" than just repurposed research. Two: this book is not a biography or a book of hard research facts. The tone missed the mark in my opinion. Yes, these were two different women so their style of discourse would be different. But, there is no reason one POV felt completely readable and the other didn't other than the author.
Three:
Eleanor's personality annoyed me, at least the personality that the author seemed to give her at times. I did a little research on her to read about her before I wrote this and she did amazing things and deserved more than her chronic cheating husband. Though it was not very in-depth research, I think some of this was how the author wrote her and some was the fact that she was young-ish at the beginning of the book (not really but in terms of the book's time-span coverage, it starts before FDR becomes governor of NY) and that may have been who she was. I am not entirely sure one way or the other.
Overall, I may try to finish/reread this book again at a different time because the subject matter is interesting. However, for the reasons above, I just couldn't do it.
April 4, 2023
Simplistic writing, all telling and lack of setting disconnect the reader from this plodding historical. I’m DNF’ing out of sheer boredom
June 27, 2023
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𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝗟𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗲𝘀
𝗕𝘆 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲 𝗕𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗰𝘁 & 𝗩𝗶𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗮 𝗖𝗵𝗿𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝗿𝗮𝘆
𝗣𝘂𝗯: 𝟲/𝟮𝟳/𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟯
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
📖 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁: This is the story of the friendship between First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt and activitist and educator, Mary McLeod Bethune (the civil rights movement's "First Lady").
After meeting at a luncheon prior to FDR's presidency, Mary and Eleanor hit it off. Though they're on opposite sides of the political spectrum, they have many common goals, especially with regard to human rights issues and education.
The friendship between these two spans decades, and they not only work together within the political arena, they're also confidants and trusted friends, helping one another through triumphs and tragedies. Though a friendship between a Black woman and a white woman isn't always easy, especially in the early 1900s, so we see the difficulties they faced both politically and personally.
💭 𝗧𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀: What a book! Meticulously researched and beautifully written - told from both Mary and Eleanor's perspectives. I felt such a range of emotions from The First Ladies: happiness, sadness, anger, frustration, inspiration, and a profound sense of pride in these women who made their voices heard when women's voices were often silenced. I loved their friendship, I loved the candid conversations they had and the way they held each other accountable. I learned so much from this book, and was utterly captivated from the time I pressed 'play' to the very end.
I chose to read this one with my ears after seeing the narrators: Robin Miles and Tavia Gilbert - two of the greats in the audiobook world - and they did not disappoint! Oh how I love a dual narration, and these two performed this seamlessly.
📌 Be sure to read the authors' notes
📌 The First Ladies is out tomorrow!
Thank you #partners @berkleypub & @prhaudio for the #gifted copies. #berkleyIG #berkleypartner #penguinrandomhousepartner
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝗟𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗲𝘀
𝗕𝘆 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲 𝗕𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗰𝘁 & 𝗩𝗶𝗰𝘁𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗮 𝗖𝗵𝗿𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗠𝘂𝗿𝗿𝗮𝘆
𝗣𝘂𝗯: 𝟲/𝟮𝟳/𝟮𝟬𝟮𝟯
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
📖 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁: This is the story of the friendship between First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt and activitist and educator, Mary McLeod Bethune (the civil rights movement's "First Lady").
After meeting at a luncheon prior to FDR's presidency, Mary and Eleanor hit it off. Though they're on opposite sides of the political spectrum, they have many common goals, especially with regard to human rights issues and education.
The friendship between these two spans decades, and they not only work together within the political arena, they're also confidants and trusted friends, helping one another through triumphs and tragedies. Though a friendship between a Black woman and a white woman isn't always easy, especially in the early 1900s, so we see the difficulties they faced both politically and personally.
💭 𝗧𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀: What a book! Meticulously researched and beautifully written - told from both Mary and Eleanor's perspectives. I felt such a range of emotions from The First Ladies: happiness, sadness, anger, frustration, inspiration, and a profound sense of pride in these women who made their voices heard when women's voices were often silenced. I loved their friendship, I loved the candid conversations they had and the way they held each other accountable. I learned so much from this book, and was utterly captivated from the time I pressed 'play' to the very end.
I chose to read this one with my ears after seeing the narrators: Robin Miles and Tavia Gilbert - two of the greats in the audiobook world - and they did not disappoint! Oh how I love a dual narration, and these two performed this seamlessly.
📌 Be sure to read the authors' notes
📌 The First Ladies is out tomorrow!
July 18, 2023
The topic and storyline of The First Ladies is rich, informative, and a wonderful part of US history that needs to be shared. That said, the dialogue was flat, character development limited, and the writing style overall was stiff. It felt less like a historical fiction novel and more like history told in narrative form. I was engaged in the storyline enough to finish the book, but felt the overall execution fell horribly flat.
June 29, 2023
4.5 Stars
Told from two perspectives, The First Ladies is the compelling fictionalized biography of two difference makers, collaborators, and friends.
The First Ladies is the story of extraordinary partnership and friendship between Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune, The First Lady of the Struggle. Most of us are aware of Eleanor Roosevelt’s contributions as First Lady of the United States; however, many other readers might not be aware of Mary Bethune’s contributions. Mary is the daughter of formerly enslaved parents, founder of the American Council of Negro Women, founder of a private school (later a university) for African American students in Florida, and a fearless and passionate Civil Rights activist. As she embarked on her life’s work, she refused to back away from the threats posed by white supremacists. Her activism and her work in education attracted the attention of Eleanor Roosevelt. Together they were a formidable team for change and equal rights.
I love the writing collaboration here! Marie Benedict is a reliable historical fiction author and Victoria Christopher Murray brings an “own voices” authenticity. In the afterward, they discuss working together and how it challenged and grew their friendship. They coauthored one book before this one, The Personal Librarian. I’m eager to see what they do next.
A significant highlight of the story for me is the friendship and inspirational partnership of Eleanor and Mary. At a time when a black woman and white woman can not sit down for tea together in a public venue, Eleanor and Mary meet in public. Their public interactions normalize integration and promote equality. I love how Eleanor is able to listen to Mary, use her influence, and strategize ways to offer assistance in Mary’s fight for equal rights. In this process, Mary is honest (in the kindest ways) with Eleanor and helps her see personal shortcomings and blind spots. Their friendship/partnership is inspiring and serves as a role model for our own interracial relationships.
Bethune is persistent, brilliant, and relentless in the way she advocates for Roosevelt’s New Deal to include ALL Americans. She earns a “seat at the table” as an advisor to President Roosevelt, and is pragmatic in her political beliefs (i.e. which party can deliver). This fictionalized biography is an important reminder that the fight for Civil Rights in the United States began before the 1960s. Rosa Parks stands on the shoulders of activists like Mary McLeod Bethune.
“We must take whatever steps are necessary–through the New Deal or our own private funding–to make sure that Negro youths receive the same educational and employment opportunities as all our children.”
I love when books talk to each other! Right after reading The First Ladies, I picked up Women of the Post (review coming soon), and was delighted to notice Mary McLeod Bethune referenced and acknowledged for her hard won efforts on behalf of black men and women in the military. I was excited to know all about Bethune and her accomplishments having just finished The First Ladies.
I read and adore historical fiction so that I can hear untold stories about inspirational women of the past. If you don’t already know of Mary McLeod Bethune, you will appreciate this compelling story, and if you admire Eleanor Roosevelt, you will enjoy knowing more of her contributions. I enthusiastically recommend The First Ladies for fans of well-told historical fiction and for those who enjoy stories of real life difference makers. Book clubs will find a lot of discussion possibilities here.
Content Considerations: racism and prejudice, reference to lynchings
Thanks #NetGalley @BerkleyPub #BerkelyWritesStrongWomen #BerkleyBuddyReads for a complimentary e ARC of #TheFirstLadies upon my request. All opinions are my own.
For more reviews visit my blog www.ReadingLadies.com where this review was first published.
Told from two perspectives, The First Ladies is the compelling fictionalized biography of two difference makers, collaborators, and friends.
The First Ladies is the story of extraordinary partnership and friendship between Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune, The First Lady of the Struggle. Most of us are aware of Eleanor Roosevelt’s contributions as First Lady of the United States; however, many other readers might not be aware of Mary Bethune’s contributions. Mary is the daughter of formerly enslaved parents, founder of the American Council of Negro Women, founder of a private school (later a university) for African American students in Florida, and a fearless and passionate Civil Rights activist. As she embarked on her life’s work, she refused to back away from the threats posed by white supremacists. Her activism and her work in education attracted the attention of Eleanor Roosevelt. Together they were a formidable team for change and equal rights.
I love the writing collaboration here! Marie Benedict is a reliable historical fiction author and Victoria Christopher Murray brings an “own voices” authenticity. In the afterward, they discuss working together and how it challenged and grew their friendship. They coauthored one book before this one, The Personal Librarian. I’m eager to see what they do next.
A significant highlight of the story for me is the friendship and inspirational partnership of Eleanor and Mary. At a time when a black woman and white woman can not sit down for tea together in a public venue, Eleanor and Mary meet in public. Their public interactions normalize integration and promote equality. I love how Eleanor is able to listen to Mary, use her influence, and strategize ways to offer assistance in Mary’s fight for equal rights. In this process, Mary is honest (in the kindest ways) with Eleanor and helps her see personal shortcomings and blind spots. Their friendship/partnership is inspiring and serves as a role model for our own interracial relationships.
Bethune is persistent, brilliant, and relentless in the way she advocates for Roosevelt’s New Deal to include ALL Americans. She earns a “seat at the table” as an advisor to President Roosevelt, and is pragmatic in her political beliefs (i.e. which party can deliver). This fictionalized biography is an important reminder that the fight for Civil Rights in the United States began before the 1960s. Rosa Parks stands on the shoulders of activists like Mary McLeod Bethune.
“We must take whatever steps are necessary–through the New Deal or our own private funding–to make sure that Negro youths receive the same educational and employment opportunities as all our children.”
I love when books talk to each other! Right after reading The First Ladies, I picked up Women of the Post (review coming soon), and was delighted to notice Mary McLeod Bethune referenced and acknowledged for her hard won efforts on behalf of black men and women in the military. I was excited to know all about Bethune and her accomplishments having just finished The First Ladies.
I read and adore historical fiction so that I can hear untold stories about inspirational women of the past. If you don’t already know of Mary McLeod Bethune, you will appreciate this compelling story, and if you admire Eleanor Roosevelt, you will enjoy knowing more of her contributions. I enthusiastically recommend The First Ladies for fans of well-told historical fiction and for those who enjoy stories of real life difference makers. Book clubs will find a lot of discussion possibilities here.
Content Considerations: racism and prejudice, reference to lynchings
Thanks #NetGalley @BerkleyPub #BerkelyWritesStrongWomen #BerkleyBuddyReads for a complimentary e ARC of #TheFirstLadies upon my request. All opinions are my own.
For more reviews visit my blog www.ReadingLadies.com where this review was first published.
January 30, 2024
This book was amazing. I learned so much about Mary and Eleanor's relationship/friendship.
I read for historical fiction books.
The collaboration with the two of these authors is epic.
I look forward to reading more books from both of these authors!!
I read for historical fiction books.
The collaboration with the two of these authors is epic.
I look forward to reading more books from both of these authors!!
October 27, 2023
When I first looked at the title of this book, I thought it was going to contain a collection of short stories about the various First Ladies. Instead, it is a story of only one First Lady, Eleanor Roosevelt, and her friendship with the famous black educator, Mary McLeod Bethune. Together they fought to have black men and women appointed to various government positions in the Roosevelt administration and do away with segregation in the military. The other key cause they fought for was the passing of legislation to give the federal government jurisdiction over the lynching of black people. They were successful in the first goal but unsuccessful in the second two. So they started a campaign of information against lynching. It is interesting that Eleanor a white woman Democrat was a friend of a black woman Republican. The story was interesting. I was aware of most of the historical facts but its presentation as a story of historical fiction made it very readable. My only complaint was I felt the story dragged at times.
I read this as an audiobook downloaded from Audible. The book is fourteen hours and thirty-three minutes. Robin Miles and Tavia Gilbert do a good job narrating the book.
I read this as an audiobook downloaded from Audible. The book is fourteen hours and thirty-three minutes. Robin Miles and Tavia Gilbert do a good job narrating the book.
November 6, 2023
Such an amazing story to bring to life. Eleanor Roosevelt is one of my favorite first ladies. She did so much for this country. There was a lot of the behind the scenes political strategizing - which I loved. But that's not for everyone.
July 23, 2023
This is not riveting history but it is interesting. There was a lot going on in terms of civil rights in the 1930s and 1940s and I imagine the war took a lot of attention from it. I know Eleanor Roosevelt is an intriguing historical figure though much of what is in this book is not new to me. Mary McLeod Bethune is also a very interesting historical figure and everything in this book is new to me because I’d never heard of her prior to this novel. This seems crazy to me considering all that she accomplished. I now realize that politics have always been in the habit of getting in the way of doing the right thing. After reading the authors’ notes I can appreciate the parallel between Mary and Eleanor’s friendship and the authors’ friendship. I enjoy good historical fiction and I’m glad I chose The First Ladies for my July BOTM. Highly recommend.
August 31, 2023
This book was painful for me to get through. I had high hopes of this book when reading the description, but it fell super flat for me. It had no plot and scratched the surface of nearly 20 years. Would have been better as a nonfiction book or book based on these characters vs being them. Would not rec to a friend.
October 8, 2023
An out of the park extraordinary read! Holy Smokes!
First, being aware of the extraordinary partnership and sistership of Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray, I knew in advance I was in for a treat. These two women teamed up with one another for the Personal Librarian, and made an extraordinary sistership in examining race, both in the historical fiction era, and also in the present between the two. But having that reflected and mirrored in the extraordinary relationship between Mary McLeod Bethune and Eleanor Roosevelt, at a time when the inequities were beyond painful and in no sight of change. These two women made an unlikely and before its time friendship, that changed the world - literally. Eleanor was a muse for FDR, and I know that personally, because my grandfather as an early Jewish Socialist, also had a writing relationship with Eleanor Roosevelt. It is a family rumor that my grandfather ghost wrote the Social Security Bill, and we have the letters to prove their relationship and their discussions. Eleanor, before her time, was on the side of change, of the just, of the right thing to do when it came to serving the just needs of Americans. And Mary, before her time, knew that a change had to happen for the African American people, and she did not take no for an answer. She founded schools and education, and then political collaborations and partnerships and agencies, to see that the necessary changes were in process. Eleanor fought for Mary and for the Negro populations she represented, and Mary was a desperately needed friend to Eleanor (at least in the fictionalized book.). And what an extraordinary friendship it was. One that brought change forth, and changed minds and hearts at the time. Getting to read the novel brings up all kinds of feelings, thoughts, frustration, and cheering, and marvel, and aplomb - and all at once.
Let me share a few of my thoughts at a time. First, one theme in the book, had to do with how change occurs. Never all at once, and sometimes far slower than we want and it should be. This is a current paradox as well, with no easy answer. If one is not elected, then no change happens. If raising race threatens the signing of the New Deal during the Depression, I can understand it isn't always about one versus the other, but first one, then the other. We see it now. In order to make sure we get some sliver of climate changes, and to preserve Medicare and Social Security, we have had to temporarily remove aid from Ukraine, and to continue fossil fuels. Its undeniably wrong and inhumane, but change moves slower than we want. FDR did a lot of great things, and yet there was a lot he could not complete, nor sway. It makes me understand a little more (how could a person ever understand), the turning away of the boats with all the dying Jewish Refugees from the shore. Knowing he was sending these potential survivors to their deaths. I am surely not justifying the decisions that FDR needed to make, or even failed to well make. I am merely saying that I see that change moves slower than we want, and sometimes to make change, we have to allow evil to progress at the same time - because those are our negotiating bargainers. The other politicians who are against the changes have powerful voices. And without being able to work with everyone, then no one gets a powerful seat or bargaining chip at the table.
Isn't it fascinating that at the time, it was the Republican Party who offered more to the Negro community, and took action on the inequity, and the Democrats who fought to keep them unequal and enslaved? Particularly the Southern Democrats, who were the KKK at the time. Multiple times in the book that continued to throw me for a loop.
Two things about Eleanor herself. For one, although it wasn't emphasized in the book, she had a gay relationship, a Boston Marriage, as it were. And she was regularly described as an unattractive woman with a poor and shabby sense of style and clothing. I think about how today, we fight (some of us) so hard for the rights of the marginalized, and the right to love as we see fit. It was a different era though, and Eleanor did not see herself as aligned in any way with Mary. She saw herself with what we see through contemporary lenses as White Privilege, and someone who had the ability to use her position and visibility and influence to help. The other thing, thinking of having a long way to go, is that in this day and age we still prize a woman for being conventionally attractive. For her dress and look. While the Fat Positivity Movement, and Health at Every Size, there would be a political correctness nowadays (we hope) that would stop some of us from stating that a woman's attractiveness or her style would have anything to do with her ability to do a particular job. To be a leader, and boy was Eleanor Roosevelt a leader! I couldn't help but muse on that. Thinking that these women were unlikely friends and leaders of that time, but of women today and where our limits and possibilities extend and lose reach. I admit I am also a proponent of certain rules of civility. I am far more Downton Abbey than Marjorie Taylor Greene. I do believe that there is a way for all people to elevate and comport themselves, and not just as leaders, but as self-respecting citizens of the world. I am not one for dressing down expectations, I still feel we need to raise ourselves at every level. Which takes time. But we also have to not be accepting of the loosening of comportment and behavior. We can raise our minds and consciousness without having to lower our standards for social comportment.
Well that was quite the digression. Let me just regroup a moment and say that I had the privilege of seeing the video (that I missed "in person" due to teaching") of Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray, hosted by on-line book goddess Jen (G)B, who so expertly interviews them, and asks such insightful thought provoking questions. I had attended on line and in person, when it was just Victoria Christopher Murray for the Personal Librarian, which was also incredible. But the treat of enjoying the two of them and their process, and sister relationship in real time, as each a 2023 white and black woman, looking into history at the ways in which eclipsed women were heroines, and what they accomplished, and what they had to do to get there. That parallel changed the book for me. It was expertly written, and I really loved so many of the scenes and the way the lens of the friendship brought the events, real or imagined, to life. Brava for Marie and Victoria, and for Mary and Eleanor. Each and all unforgettable women who change minds, lives, and worlds. 5 stars from me. Simply Unforgettable.
First, being aware of the extraordinary partnership and sistership of Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray, I knew in advance I was in for a treat. These two women teamed up with one another for the Personal Librarian, and made an extraordinary sistership in examining race, both in the historical fiction era, and also in the present between the two. But having that reflected and mirrored in the extraordinary relationship between Mary McLeod Bethune and Eleanor Roosevelt, at a time when the inequities were beyond painful and in no sight of change. These two women made an unlikely and before its time friendship, that changed the world - literally. Eleanor was a muse for FDR, and I know that personally, because my grandfather as an early Jewish Socialist, also had a writing relationship with Eleanor Roosevelt. It is a family rumor that my grandfather ghost wrote the Social Security Bill, and we have the letters to prove their relationship and their discussions. Eleanor, before her time, was on the side of change, of the just, of the right thing to do when it came to serving the just needs of Americans. And Mary, before her time, knew that a change had to happen for the African American people, and she did not take no for an answer. She founded schools and education, and then political collaborations and partnerships and agencies, to see that the necessary changes were in process. Eleanor fought for Mary and for the Negro populations she represented, and Mary was a desperately needed friend to Eleanor (at least in the fictionalized book.). And what an extraordinary friendship it was. One that brought change forth, and changed minds and hearts at the time. Getting to read the novel brings up all kinds of feelings, thoughts, frustration, and cheering, and marvel, and aplomb - and all at once.
Let me share a few of my thoughts at a time. First, one theme in the book, had to do with how change occurs. Never all at once, and sometimes far slower than we want and it should be. This is a current paradox as well, with no easy answer. If one is not elected, then no change happens. If raising race threatens the signing of the New Deal during the Depression, I can understand it isn't always about one versus the other, but first one, then the other. We see it now. In order to make sure we get some sliver of climate changes, and to preserve Medicare and Social Security, we have had to temporarily remove aid from Ukraine, and to continue fossil fuels. Its undeniably wrong and inhumane, but change moves slower than we want. FDR did a lot of great things, and yet there was a lot he could not complete, nor sway. It makes me understand a little more (how could a person ever understand), the turning away of the boats with all the dying Jewish Refugees from the shore. Knowing he was sending these potential survivors to their deaths. I am surely not justifying the decisions that FDR needed to make, or even failed to well make. I am merely saying that I see that change moves slower than we want, and sometimes to make change, we have to allow evil to progress at the same time - because those are our negotiating bargainers. The other politicians who are against the changes have powerful voices. And without being able to work with everyone, then no one gets a powerful seat or bargaining chip at the table.
Isn't it fascinating that at the time, it was the Republican Party who offered more to the Negro community, and took action on the inequity, and the Democrats who fought to keep them unequal and enslaved? Particularly the Southern Democrats, who were the KKK at the time. Multiple times in the book that continued to throw me for a loop.
Two things about Eleanor herself. For one, although it wasn't emphasized in the book, she had a gay relationship, a Boston Marriage, as it were. And she was regularly described as an unattractive woman with a poor and shabby sense of style and clothing. I think about how today, we fight (some of us) so hard for the rights of the marginalized, and the right to love as we see fit. It was a different era though, and Eleanor did not see herself as aligned in any way with Mary. She saw herself with what we see through contemporary lenses as White Privilege, and someone who had the ability to use her position and visibility and influence to help. The other thing, thinking of having a long way to go, is that in this day and age we still prize a woman for being conventionally attractive. For her dress and look. While the Fat Positivity Movement, and Health at Every Size, there would be a political correctness nowadays (we hope) that would stop some of us from stating that a woman's attractiveness or her style would have anything to do with her ability to do a particular job. To be a leader, and boy was Eleanor Roosevelt a leader! I couldn't help but muse on that. Thinking that these women were unlikely friends and leaders of that time, but of women today and where our limits and possibilities extend and lose reach. I admit I am also a proponent of certain rules of civility. I am far more Downton Abbey than Marjorie Taylor Greene. I do believe that there is a way for all people to elevate and comport themselves, and not just as leaders, but as self-respecting citizens of the world. I am not one for dressing down expectations, I still feel we need to raise ourselves at every level. Which takes time. But we also have to not be accepting of the loosening of comportment and behavior. We can raise our minds and consciousness without having to lower our standards for social comportment.
Well that was quite the digression. Let me just regroup a moment and say that I had the privilege of seeing the video (that I missed "in person" due to teaching") of Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray, hosted by on-line book goddess Jen (G)B, who so expertly interviews them, and asks such insightful thought provoking questions. I had attended on line and in person, when it was just Victoria Christopher Murray for the Personal Librarian, which was also incredible. But the treat of enjoying the two of them and their process, and sister relationship in real time, as each a 2023 white and black woman, looking into history at the ways in which eclipsed women were heroines, and what they accomplished, and what they had to do to get there. That parallel changed the book for me. It was expertly written, and I really loved so many of the scenes and the way the lens of the friendship brought the events, real or imagined, to life. Brava for Marie and Victoria, and for Mary and Eleanor. Each and all unforgettable women who change minds, lives, and worlds. 5 stars from me. Simply Unforgettable.
June 27, 2024
I finished the over 370- plus pages of this historical fiction book in record time. In fact, I stayed up late to finish the last 100 pages. Why? It's not a suspense thriller-- the book moved along at a rather leisurely pace. But it is quite simply a beautiful story centering on the relationship of two extraordinary women--Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune. Mary was the daughter of formerly enslaved people; Eleanor was from the wealthy ( and you could almost say aristocratic) old Dutch family of the Roosevelts and her uncle was, of course, President Teddy Roosevelt. The friendship they formed was an unlikely one to be sure for that time but was a very powerful and heartwarming one as they worked together in the cause of civil rights for Black Americans ( referred to in those days as "colored people" or "Negroes.").
With the election of Eleanor's husband, Franklin D. Roosevelt, as president, Eleanor and Mary collaborated more closely. Eleanor became a very controversial figure as she was outspoken and refused to keep in her place as a typical quietly supportive First Lady. Mary wanted to make sure that Blacks were not left behind by the New Deal and, with Eleanor's help, she could press her concerns on the president. Unfortunately, the two women could make little progress due to the political realities of that time. FDR was the leader of the Democratic Party, which had a powerful Southern wing-- which was segregationist. There was only so much he could do as he feared the loss of support of that Southern bloc, which would cause the failure of his New Deal programs, such as Social Security.
With the coming of World War II, both women pressed for an end to the segregated army and called for an integrated military to fight the war to save democracy. That would not happen under FDR. Black soldiers would fight for freedom in segregated units. But, as a compromise, the training of Black pilots was undertaken and the first squadron of African-American fighter pilots, the Tuskegee Airmen, was formed. Eleanor had to push to see that they were sent into combat! It would not be until the next president, Harry Truman, that the armed forces would be integrated but this book doesn't cover that.
5 STARS, mainly because it was a book that I needed to read. Reading about the two very brave and determined women who were very passionate about the cause of equality and justice has actually been inspirational for me. I believe this country can move forward-- when it has such dedicated citizens as Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune.
Thanks to Berkely Books for this copy.
With the election of Eleanor's husband, Franklin D. Roosevelt, as president, Eleanor and Mary collaborated more closely. Eleanor became a very controversial figure as she was outspoken and refused to keep in her place as a typical quietly supportive First Lady. Mary wanted to make sure that Blacks were not left behind by the New Deal and, with Eleanor's help, she could press her concerns on the president. Unfortunately, the two women could make little progress due to the political realities of that time. FDR was the leader of the Democratic Party, which had a powerful Southern wing-- which was segregationist. There was only so much he could do as he feared the loss of support of that Southern bloc, which would cause the failure of his New Deal programs, such as Social Security.
With the coming of World War II, both women pressed for an end to the segregated army and called for an integrated military to fight the war to save democracy. That would not happen under FDR. Black soldiers would fight for freedom in segregated units. But, as a compromise, the training of Black pilots was undertaken and the first squadron of African-American fighter pilots, the Tuskegee Airmen, was formed. Eleanor had to push to see that they were sent into combat! It would not be until the next president, Harry Truman, that the armed forces would be integrated but this book doesn't cover that.
5 STARS, mainly because it was a book that I needed to read. Reading about the two very brave and determined women who were very passionate about the cause of equality and justice has actually been inspirational for me. I believe this country can move forward-- when it has such dedicated citizens as Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune.
Thanks to Berkely Books for this copy.
June 15, 2023
Historical fiction about Eleanor Roosevelt and her friendship with Dr Mary Bethune. Spans from right before FDR becomes governor of NY to his death. Eleanor is my favorite First Lady, so I was really excited when I heard about this. I didn’t know who Mary was, and damn is it time we write books about her! This woman accomplished so much for Black Americans. The main focus is their work together for civil rights. I learned so much. My one thing is that it was a bit repetitive. It alternates pov every chapter and it got boring reading the same things twice, BUT reading each woman’s take on the same situation was very interesting. TY @berkleypub for my copy. Out 6/27!
July 11, 2023
Told from 2 perspectives; Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary Bethune-Cookman, I was excited to read about these two formidable, ground-breaking women and their very unique (at the time) friendship. However, I found this book to be boring, repetitive and underwhelming. Last year, The Personal Librarian, was one of my favorite reads and I really liked the writing style of the authors and while I thoroughly enjoyed reading about these 2 great leading ladies and their fantastic historical achievements there was some reason the story fell flat for me. I guess I was hoping for a whole lot more, which is disappointing as these 2 extraordinary women deserved the absolute best. The story did not live up to these First Ladies legacies. I would love for these two authors to give it another go because this book felt like a warm-up to the real thing. Read this if you have any interest in these 2 exceptional women.
June 19, 2023
I have long thought the Civil Rights movement was in the 1960s—with Martin Luther King, John Lewis, Malcom X and others. However, this book chronicles the movement from 1927 to 1943 through the friendship of Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune. Mrs. Roosevelt was of course the First Lady of the United States, while Mrs. Bethune was known as the First Lady of the Struggle.
The two women met in 1927, only to discover that they shared many of the same aspirations for improving the lives of women and minorities. Mrs. Bethune headed a college in Florida and was devoted to the Republican party of Lincoln. Mrs. Roosevelt’s husband was a Democratic politician. The women had to negotiate differences in race and customs, as well as political parties. Mrs. Roosevelt’s eyes were open as she saw first-hand the chilly reception Mrs. Bethune received at restaurants and hotels. The women gently educated one another and worked to further their common goals.
I appreciated learning about Mary McLeod Bethune. She was the sole black student at Moody Bible Institute, hoping to become a missionary to Africa. But alas only white missionaries were sent to Africa at that time. Mrs. Roosevelt’s marriage difficulties were also portrayed in the novel. Both women moved pass their disappointments and channeled their energies into making a difference.
There were several scenes in the book where Mrs. Bethune expressed her preference to be addressed as “Mrs. Bethune” instead of “Mary.” At that time in history, many white people referred to black citizens by their first name as a form of condescension. Because of that, I was surprised that the chapter headings in the book were: “Mary” or “Eleanor” respectively. It was also a bit jarring to find 2020s phrasing of race relations put into the mouths of characters set in the 1930s and 40s. It didn’t fit with the historical time period. Nevertheless, the book expanded my understanding of both of these remarkable women.
(Thanks to Netgalley for an advance copy of this book.)
The two women met in 1927, only to discover that they shared many of the same aspirations for improving the lives of women and minorities. Mrs. Bethune headed a college in Florida and was devoted to the Republican party of Lincoln. Mrs. Roosevelt’s husband was a Democratic politician. The women had to negotiate differences in race and customs, as well as political parties. Mrs. Roosevelt’s eyes were open as she saw first-hand the chilly reception Mrs. Bethune received at restaurants and hotels. The women gently educated one another and worked to further their common goals.
I appreciated learning about Mary McLeod Bethune. She was the sole black student at Moody Bible Institute, hoping to become a missionary to Africa. But alas only white missionaries were sent to Africa at that time. Mrs. Roosevelt’s marriage difficulties were also portrayed in the novel. Both women moved pass their disappointments and channeled their energies into making a difference.
There were several scenes in the book where Mrs. Bethune expressed her preference to be addressed as “Mrs. Bethune” instead of “Mary.” At that time in history, many white people referred to black citizens by their first name as a form of condescension. Because of that, I was surprised that the chapter headings in the book were: “Mary” or “Eleanor” respectively. It was also a bit jarring to find 2020s phrasing of race relations put into the mouths of characters set in the 1930s and 40s. It didn’t fit with the historical time period. Nevertheless, the book expanded my understanding of both of these remarkable women.
(Thanks to Netgalley for an advance copy of this book.)
July 10, 2023
At times a little slow, very enticing with history and inspirational.
I had no idea Eleanor did so much behind the presidency of her husband.
Epic. Engaging. Spellbinding. I truly enjoyed this one!
I had no idea Eleanor did so much behind the presidency of her husband.
Epic. Engaging. Spellbinding. I truly enjoyed this one!
November 1, 2023
I was really hoping to like this more but after a while I just got bored. I think I just needed more on each chapter versus the constant back and forth. It was like listening to a conversation while the characters are having a conversation. Mary was my favorite of the two, which I wasn’t expecting. But she seemed more aware of the world but not jaded or naive. She knew things could change she just needed the right ears listening.
October 16, 2023
This was a book club pick and not one I would have attempted to read on my own, as I was sure this was going to slant political and it did. Unless I am purposefully reading a non-fiction book that deals with politics/current affairs or a fiction book where politics/current affairs is the central theme, I don't want it in my books.
So. I am not the target audience for this book, but I do try to read outside of my comfort zone, if only to expand my POV and understanding of the world. However, despite 70 pages of this, the tone was too heavy-handed for me to enjoy and I decided to put this one down and not say much during the book club meeting.
Nothing against the two women who are the focus of this book, but when reading about people that actually existed, I prefer non-fiction to fiction. Again, that is me, not this book. A lot of people loved this book and I am sure most of the ladies in the book club will love this one and that is good. There is a reader for every book and a book for every reader. That's one of the things that makes this world and the GR corner of it, so interesting. :)
2, not my cuppa but might be yours, stars.
So. I am not the target audience for this book, but I do try to read outside of my comfort zone, if only to expand my POV and understanding of the world. However, despite 70 pages of this, the tone was too heavy-handed for me to enjoy and I decided to put this one down and not say much during the book club meeting.
Nothing against the two women who are the focus of this book, but when reading about people that actually existed, I prefer non-fiction to fiction. Again, that is me, not this book. A lot of people loved this book and I am sure most of the ladies in the book club will love this one and that is good. There is a reader for every book and a book for every reader. That's one of the things that makes this world and the GR corner of it, so interesting. :)
2, not my cuppa but might be yours, stars.
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July 16, 2023
Another stellar collaboration. The relationship of Eleanor Roosevelt and Mary McLeod Bethune is deftly written about in a captivating fashion. I will be recommending this wonderful book to many.
Many thanks to Netgalley, Edelweiss, Berkley and the authors for my complimentary e-copy ARC in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
Many thanks to Netgalley, Edelweiss, Berkley and the authors for my complimentary e-copy ARC in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
February 17, 2024
for someone who usually shies away from historical fiction since it’s not my favorite genre, i really enjoyed this! great story of friendship and the fight for racial justice and equality
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